Wednesday, October 31, 2012

The darkness in us all.

Dark heart image
We all have a little darkness in our heart.
All of us have darkness in our heart, a voice that misleads us, destroys us, takes away the things we care about. We are all humans and we all make mistakes but what happens when those mistakes cost us something important?

It's hard to ignore the voice in our head that is constantly casting doubt in our heart, after all, so many things go wrong in life why should we expect something to actually go right? It's so hard to believe in ourselves and others, so very hard. But we must trust others, we must believe that everything will turn out for the best.

If we doubt everything then how will we ever move forward in time. Being scared of everything makes you run from everything as well. It's true that a part of us is destructive but it's everyone's choice if they act on those instincts or not.

A lot of the times our doubts are foolish doubts that we cast in fear, and it manifest itself into something that can drive you crazy. Learning to control these things is very hard for anyone. Some people have less problems then others but for some it's enough to make them want to bash their head into a wall to make it stop.

For some people they think about things like this and they fall to the voice, they believe their doubts over what they want to be true. It just seems more likely too them, but that itself seems a bit sad.

So what can we possibly do to avoid this trap we have set for ourselves? It's rather hard honestly, you have to do many things to avoid those negative thoughts. The most important is believing in yourself and the people around you.

There is no reason to ever doubt yourself, you will never betray yourself so you never have reason to have self doubt. The people who are close to you have been close to you for a reason, if you have let them get close then why are you doubting them. Trust them, and believe they will always be on your side.

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